Tuiloma Sina Retzlaff says the police inspector's comments were made on White Ribbon Day, just hours after the Police Commissioner, Egon Keil, had led a march against violence in Apia.
She says the comments are contradictory to a 'break the silence, stop the violence' campaign the police are leading, which invites victims to have the courage to step forward and report domestic violence.
She says the officer had also suggested that everything can be solved in the matrimonial bed, and that there are levels of incidents not worth reporting.